WARNING! THIS POST TALKS ABOUT SEX AND EXCITING WAYS TO MAKE SEX MORE INTERESTING
6 Ways to Bring Sexy Back to the Bedroom
My bedroom is my favorite place. For years I have been asking for a TV in there but my husband always says “Then you would never get out of bed.” He is totally right! My favorite thing to do in the bedroom is sleep. I love sleep(maybe more than I love my kids, definitely more than I love blow drying my hair). My husbands favorite thing to do in the bedroom is also sleep. Okay, maybe that’s his second favorite thing to do there. To keep us both happy in the bedroom I have a few tricks.
It’s not that I am not interested, its that with kids, we don’t always have the time or privacy required to relive our honeymoon. However, I have discovered a 6 ways to make it sexy on a time limit. Some of these are similar to each other but I felt they needed to be separate that way I could explain different ways to use them.
1. Dress Up
Men love sexy costumes! Walk into the room dressed up as a sexy maid, nurse, or police officer. There are hundreds of choices. If you don’t want to wear a costume try wearing a wig. It can give you long hair, short hair, blue hair, red hair, pink hair, any color you want. Find out what he is into and surprise him!
2. Sexy Shoes
High Heels make legs shapelier, butts look firmer, hips sway more, and breasts look bigger. Men like all of those things so of course they like high heels. Buy some 4 inch heels and nothing else. No costume, lingerie, candles, lotion, or whipped cream needed. (In fact, I recommend not wearing anything but the heels!)
3. Lingerie
Lingerie is sexy! You don’t even have to wear it. Leave it on the bed for him to see. He will be turned on all day! I am a big fan of lingerie that I don’t have to take off(nothing kills the mood like having to stop because you can’t get the bustier off). Get a crotchless, open cup teddy and you don’t have to stop to take anything off. It also keeps some things you don’t want to be seen(stretch marks from pregnancy) covered. As someone who is plus size I often feel unattractive in lingerie. When I don’t feel attractive there is nothing my husband can say to make me feel attractive. So my advice for lingerie is find something you feel sexy in.
4. Dirty Talk
Tell him how bad you want him. Tell him how horny you are. Tell him what you want him to do to you and what you want to do to him. Let him know how much you like what he is doing to you or what you are doing to him. Make sure he knows you are enjoying yourself. You can even do dirty talk while he is at work, the gym, hanging out with his friends(sexting), or just in the bedroom as a form of foreplay. It doesn’t even have to be something that you will actually do, he just wants to hear naughty things come out of your mouth.
5. Role Play
Be his sex slave. Set up boundaries beforehand so that it is stuff you are willing to do and just go with it. He will love that you do everything he tells you. Make him your sex slave. Be his mistress. Be his secretary. Teacher, librarian, harem girl, you can be anything. He can be anything. Fulfill his fantasy and have him fulfil yours. Costume optional.
6. Foreplay in the Shower
You have to shower anyway so why not do it together. Not only do you save water but you can wash him and he can wash you(which is intimate and relaxing). After you are clean fool around a little(or a lot) until you are ready to take it back to the bedroom. This is my favorite way to shower!!!
There are many more ways to be sexy in the bedroom. Toys, props, handcuffs, games, and lotions are all ways to have fun in the bedroom(or where ever you want). I know from experience that those ways can be exciting but with young kids around we currently try to keep it simple, fast, and easy to cleanup.
